Self Confidence

Your confidence is reflected in how you carry yourself... but also in how you take care of yourself. You could be overweight and be confident... but your confidence is born of knowing, deep inside, that even though you are overweight, you are as such by desire, not because of being too lazy to change. A confident man is always working to improve himself.

Yes, you can DEVELOP confidence and then hold it no matter how you look or what you wear. But, a confident man isn't going to wear cheap, gaudy, or dirty things. His confidence and his character won't abide it. He will, at all times, present himself in the best position he can. Why wear a pair of $5 beat up loafers when you could be wearing a pair of $40 coasters that will look so much better? A confident man would.